대기 시간 : 일하는 방법 (2 년)

Medical, Kelly Yust Abrams, PhD, 개발 심리학자

이 시대를 기다릴 것입니까?

외부 세계 연구는 2 년간의 탐험의 작업이며,이 이용의 일부는 세계 경계를 보여주는 것입니다. 이것은 그의 2 년 동안 좋은 일과 무슨 일이 일어나는지 알아 내기 위해 경계가 필요하다는 것을 의미합니다. 그것은 또한 감정의 실체이며 행복한 아이와 신음이있는 센터가 될 수 있습니다.

자녀가 그에게 잘 처리된다면, 가장 좋은 방법은 약간 조용한 시간 동안 세부 사항 (또는 한계)을 유발하는 모든 것을 이해하는 것입니다. 많은 전문가들은 전통적인 생산량 사용, 특히 작은 아이의 사용에 대해 회의적입니다. 그녀가 두 살 때 앉기가 어렵습니다. 자녀가 결정된 표현 대신 서 있도록 노력하는 것은 필기 또는 점점 커지는 힘 싸움에 속할 수 있습니다.

대신 그렇게 말할 것입니다. 세상이 무게를 낼 때 아들과 함께하는 순간입니다. 자녀와 함께이 최고의 기술에 사용하기위한 6 가지 전략 :



그것을 처벌로 보지 마십시오. 죽은 순간을 자녀의 처벌로 보지 않으면 그럴 것입니다. 대신, 자녀를 가르치고 잠시 멈추고 행동을 바꿀 수있는 기회를 살펴보십시오. 그는 사람들의 노력을 요구할 수 있지만 랜도니아를 부르거나 움직이거나 말하지 않을 때하려고합니다. 목표는 아들을 처벌하는 것이 아니라 속도를 바꾸는 데 도움이됩니다. 대기의 목적은 감정적 성장을 중화하고 깨닫고 자녀가 비명을 지르는 방법에 대한 부정적인 예없이 행동하는 것을 돕는 것입니다.

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자녀에 대한 대안. 예를 들어 기억하십시오. 장난감을 게시하는 경우 하드 게임의 규칙을 기억하십시오. 따라서 세탁소를 타고 바구니를 타고 부드러운 장난감 (또는 부드러운 동물 또는 곱슬 양말)을 연주하십시오.

기적을 기대하지 마십시오. 그가 의심 할 여지없이 발견 된 바와 같이, 2 년 동안의 몇 년은 악명 높고 자원 봉사자이며 예상치 못한 것입니다. 그것은 정상입니다 (확실히 당신이 힘들어도) 유일한 해결책은 매우 인내심입니다. 자녀가 어떻게 세상에 대한 안전한 이해를 창출하는지 경계를 계속해서 시도하십시오. 테이블 식사는 중력이 계속 존재한다는 것을 결정하기 위해 계속해서 다시 시작할 수 있습니다. 일관성이 중요 할 수 없도록하기 위해 행동을 반복 할 수 있습니다.

자녀가 순종하는 천사가되는 시간을 포함하여 독특한 접근법은 없습니다. 그러나이 시대에 행동이 정상이라는 것을 배우는 것은 현실적인 기대를 유지할 것입니다. 또한 조용한 활동에서 긍정적 인 시간, 시간, 리듬을 사용하는 것은 어린 시절에 젊은이의 경우 잘 다르다는 것을 알 수 있습니다.

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