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당신은 언제 당신의 광석을 게시 했습니까?

지난 7 월, 나는 18 세의 나이에 친구를 잃었습니다 (대부분 해부학이되기 21 주 전에 이해하지 못했습니다). 파괴적인 상실은 두 명의 놀라운 소년을 위해 설계된 우리의 공주였습니다. 이제 나는 우리의 활과 함께 13 주, 심지어 우리 아이들, 어머니, 상사 이외의 다른 사람들도 있습니다. 나는 출판을 두려워했다. 두려움, 발표 직후에 우리는 아이를 잃었습니다 ... 다시. 반응이나 과정에 대한 두려움. 나는 관계를 숨기고 (예, 나는 거의 없다) 사회적 상황을 피하여 그것과 함께 서있을 필요가 없다. 언제 편안하다고 느꼈습니까? 포스터의 원본 노트 (1) 4 주목

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그룹 소유자, 손실을 후회하고 고풍을 환영합니다! 나는 공식적으로 우리의 활을 발표 한 적이 없다. 직장에서 나는 사람들이 나 자신을 이해하게하고, 내가 임신했는지 물었을 때 정직했습니다. 나는 그것을 Facebook에 게시하지 않았다. 나는 1 년 안에 블로그를 시작했고, 26 주 동안 임신을했고 블로그를 발표했습니다. 내 독자들은 이것을 먼저 알고있었습니다.
나는 당신의 상실과 축복에 대해 사과드립니다. 나는 2014 년 2 월에 딸을 잃었고 지난 8 월부터 시도해 보았습니다. 화요일에 나는 우리가 경향이 있다는 것을 알게되었고 하루 종일 당신에게 말했다. 나는 얼마나 많은 귀중한 삶의 순간이 될 수 있는지 알고 가능한 한 오래 사랑할 것입니다. 그것은 단지 우리의 결정이었습니다. 나는 혼합에 다른 감정이 있기 때문에 너무 좋았습니다.
Je n'ai jamais «annoncé» ma grossesse\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Il vous suffit de faire ce que vous vous sentez à l'aise\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je suis d'accord que vous voulez célébrer la vie de votre bébé, peu importe combien de temps il est, donc je peux voir comment certaines personnes peuvent vouloir partager immédiatement\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Mais pour moi, c'était mon bébé de célébrer - personne d'autre\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Alors mon mari et moi avons apprécié les moments que nous pouvions ensemble\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je ne pouvais pas supporter de gens qui me demandaient à ce sujet\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Notre perte a été tellement isolante que je n'ai vu pas besoin de partager ce bébé avec quelqu'un d'autre\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je ne pouvais pas supporter l'idée que les gens sautent dans le train de bébé quand j'ai senti qu'ils nous désertaient à notre point le plus bas\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. J'ai presque 32 semaines maintenant et si ce n'était pas pour mon ventre, la plupart des gens ne le sauraient toujours pas\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. J'ai dit à ma mère environ 14 semaines parce que je pensais que je pourrais avoir besoin d'elle pour me donner mes photos de progestérone \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\(aussi parce qu'elle est l'une des seules personnes à me soutenir à travers tout\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\)\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Et j'ai dit à mes frères et sœurs quelque part environ 18 semaines\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\? J'ai l'impression que ce sont les seuls qui se soucient vraiment de ma famille / des enfants de toute façon\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Tout le monde devait lui demander s'ils voulaient savoir!
그가 기분이 좋을 것이라고 발표했을 때 나는 알았다고 생각했다. 나는 과거에 이것을 한 적이 없다. 우리가 FB 등으로 출판 된 모든 부분을 가진 첫 임신 때문이라고 생각합니다. 우리 아들이 세상을 떠났을 때, 이것이 모든 사람이 같은 방식으로 자신의 죽음을 공유해야한다고 말하는 유일한 방법입니다. Facebook 간행물과 내가 아들을 준 전자 그룹 그룹을하는 것은 불분명하고 이상하게 보입니다. 나는 그것을 할 수 없다는 것을 알았지 만 항상 우리는 약 20 주 정도 건너 갈 수 있다고 생각했지만 잘 작동하지 않았습니다.
현재 36 주. 내 가까운 가족은 알고 있으며 매일 나를 보는 사람들은 그것을 알고 있습니다. 그러나 나는 공개적으로 출판 한 적이 없으므로 왜 우리가 대부분의 친구와 가족 근처에 살지 않는지 모르는 많은 사람들이 있습니다. 나는 우리가 그들을 집으로 데려 올 때 메시지를 공유하려고합니다. 나는 그것이 우리 가족의 집이라고 생각합니다.

우리는 시험이 긍정적 인 즉시 사람들을 보는 데 익숙하고 이것이 선택입니다. 그러나 모든 사람들은 자신이 올바르게 생각하는 것을해야합니다. 이 그룹에서 우리는 때때로 우리는 그것이 임신하고 기쁨을 더 두려워한다는 것을 알게되며, 당신의 삶을 기대하기 때문에 다른 사람들과 나누기가 어려울 수 있으며, 그렇습니다. 우리가 의미 할 때 임신했습니다.

요컨대, 당신이 생각하는 것이 더 좋다고 생각하십시오. 사람들이 그것을 좋아하지 않거나주지 않는다면, 이것이 문제가 아니라 문제라는 것을 기억하십시오.
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우리는 계획된 출생 2 주 전에 블로그에서 기사를 실제로 선언합니다. 분명히, 가장 잘 정리 된 계획은 BS였습니다. 우리는이 두 주간 기능으로 나눠주고 집에 가고 싶었습니다. 나는 당신의 출생과 공장 체재가 너무 삼키기 때문에 더 긴 창문을 주셔서 기쁘다 고 생각합니다.
나는 현재 8 주이고 2014 년 9 월에는 25 주 동안 어린 소녀를 잃었습니다. 나는 처음 두 번의 임신으로 매우 사적이었다. 나는 2.5입니다. 나는 FB 임신을 출판하거나 반영하고 싶지 않지만, 더 많은 사람들, 즉 동료, 가족 및 임신 한 친구들을 더 무서워서 말할 수 있습니다. 내가 손실을 입었을 때, 나는 혼자서 고립되었고, 이제 모든 것이 일어나고, 모든 사람에 대한 의견이나 관심사, 결과는 바뀌지 않을 것이라는 인상을 받았지만 결과는 바뀌지 않지만 모든 것에 더 많은 지원을받을 것입니다. Parfois, Rasser에 대한 저를위한 이러한 통제 중 하나만이 뿌리를 내 렸습니다.