아이들의 이름

구호 후?

J'ai lu de nombreuses perspectives différentes sur l'auto-apaisant et l'entraînement au sommeil et je ne peux pas décider ce qui est bon pour moi et mon bébé\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Parfois, j'ai l'impression que le pleurer pourrait aider les bébés à s'apaiser\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je suis un entraînement du sommeil et je réponds toujours aux cris de mon bébé\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Pas tout de suite, mais je ne le laisse pas crier parce que j'ai fait ça et mon bébé est persistant\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Il criera\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Et je suis trop faible\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Donc, quand il pleure, je l'apaiserais avec des balles à bascule / vers le dos\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Mais si je continue de faire cela, dépendra-t-il de mon confort pour dormir\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\? Comment pourrai-je l'entraîner à dormir sans intervention constante\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\? C'est donc quand je considère que peut-être le pleurer aide les bébés à s'apaiser\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. D'un autre côté, je sais que tous les bébés ne sont pas les mêmes\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Chaque bébé a son propre tempérament\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Certains sont plus faciles à vivre et indépendants que d'autres\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. J'ai lu que les bébés qui pleurent ne s'endorment que de l'épuisement et ne sont pas vraiment apaisants\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. J'ai lu des gens disant que l'auto-apaisant est une compétence que les bébés accélèrent à leur propre rythme comme toute autre compétence\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Mais que se passe-t-il si cette compétence ne se développe pas avant leur beaucoup plus ancien\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\? La régulation émotionnelle est quelque chose avec laquelle les adultes ont des problèmes\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. J'ai également lu qu'il est naturel que les bébés aient besoin de réconfort et de pleurs, c'est leur façon d'exprimer leurs besoins, alors donnez-leur ce dont ils ont besoin\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Eh bien, ce n'est pas «naturel» pour les deux parents de devoir travailler tôt et de se reposer de bonnes nuits\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Donc, le cos sommeil n'est pas toujours idéal\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Nous faisons un entraînement au sommeil depuis 2 semaines maintenant et jusqu'à présent, il est capable de dormir dans son propre berceau pendant de courtes périodes et nous nous réveillons constamment pour le apaiser\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je ne dis pas que nous faisons tout correctement\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Et peut-être que sa dentition et d'autres facteurs jouent également un rôle\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je ne sais pas vraiment où je vais avec ce post\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Peut-être que je ne fais que déclamer\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Ou peut-être que je veux voir si une maman expérimentée a fait apprendre à un bébé à s'auto-apaiser sans le pleurer ou à d'autres méthodes d'entraînement au sommeil\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. Je ne veux tout simplement pas me retrouver avec un enfant de 5 ans qui a encore besoin de maman et de papa pour dormir\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\. 원래 의견 사례 (1) 0 주목

7 참고

마지막으로, 15-15-25 사이에서 바뀌었을 때, 우리는 당신이 피곤할 때 그의 일상을 통과합니다. 나는 15 분 동안 타이머를 향할 것이고, 내가 울면, 당신은 그것을 집어 들고 몇 분 동안 무언가를해야 (책을 읽고, 집을 돌아 다니는 것과 같이) 과정을 시작하기 전에 몇 분 동안 무언가를해야합니다.
또한, 내 아이는 긴 부분 (6 시간) 후 잠을 자기 시작했습니다. 나는 2 시간 전에 서 있었다. 다음 단계를 추가하고 동의를 도와주세요.
입장하기 전에 딸에게 보통 조금씩 딸을 줘. 휴식을 취하는 데 10 분 (그녀는 나파를 발견하고 편안한 느낌 등). 보통, 그가 총에 맞아서 그는 갔다. 잠시 이해하십시오. 내가 즉시 응답을 중단했을 때 대부분의 각성은 들었습니다. 당신이 울기는 어렵지만 잠을 자기가 어렵습니다! 모든 답변 확인 (1)
수면 훈련은 매우 어렵습니다. 나는 첫 번째로 운이 좋았다. 나는 훈련을 잤다. 그는 늙어 가서 침대에 넣을 것을 싫어했습니다. 그들은 우리에게 잠을 자도록 초대했습니다. 천천히 나는 그것을 돌보기 위해 시간을 밀었습니다. 아침에 두 개가 내 경계라고 가정 해 봅시다. 그가 신경 쓰지 않을 때까지 일어 났을 때, 나는 그에게 평화를 주었다. 나는 며칠 동안 한 시간을 거절했다. 그는 약 8 개월 동안 잤다. 그는 자고있을 때 훼손 할 것입니다. 밤마다 그들은 약 6 개월 동안 깨어납니다. 나는 그것을 내 방으로 옮겼다. 그리고 나는 즉시 더 잘 잤다. 그러나 나는 여전히 2-4 시간마다 서 있었다. 나는 지쳤다. 나는 취침 시간에 가서 몇 가지 팁을 받았습니다. 가장 큰 사람은 잠자리에 들기 30 분 전에 우리에게 먹이를주는 데 도움이되었습니다. 언뜻보기에, 나는 IOC에 문제가 있었는데, 나는 내 아이가 통제함으로써 개인적으로 악화된다는 것을 알았습니다. 수면과 수면은 약 4 박입니다. 그는 보통 12 시경에 일어났습니다. 그리고 4 년에서 12 년까지 그것은 뜨거웠고. 16 나는 그것에 대해 걱정했다. 4 개의 수면에서 모유 수유가 더 길다고 생각합니다. 다시 시작해야한다면 6 시까 지 밀지 않을 것입니다. 2-3 주 후 그는 20 시간 동안 잤다. 에. 07:00 at. 8. 그는 그것을 가져 갔다. b. 19:30. 그리고 그를 조금 연주하게하십시오. 그런 다음 1 년 동안 잠수기 / 수면 가방을 삽입하여 이미 사운드 머신으로 어두운 방으로 가져 왔습니다. 그는 머리에 키스를하고 꺼내서 똑바로 그의 상태로 가서 잠을 자고 나를 쳐다 본다. 이제 한밤중에 비명을 지르면 조금 합리적이라는 것을 알고 있습니다. 우리 모두가 집에서 한 최고 였지만 자녀의 말을 듣는 것이 어렵다는 것을 이해합니다. 그렇게하지 않기로 결정한 경우. 그러나 원하는 것을 결정한다면 영원히 지속되지 마십시오. 그들은 화를 내기 때문에 울고, 원하는 것을 이해하지 못합니다. 그들이 버려진 느낌이 들기 때문이 아닙니다. 누군가가 나에게 말했다. 그리고 그것은 정말로 나를 도왔다. 나는 내 아기가 욕실 바닥에 달려 가지 못하게했고 잘 지내기 때문에 내 아기를 끊는 것을 보았다.
나는 이것이 당신이 지금하는 일에 문제라고 생각하지 않습니다. 내가 계속되고 있다면, 느리게 슬라이드가 있습니다. 당신이 침대에 들어간 후에는 천천히 익숙해 질 수 있습니다. 나는 당신이 매우 열심히 울고 있다고 들었 기 때문에 그것을 두려워하는 우리의 수면 훈련 (질병, 분리 및 두려움 때문에 파괴되었습니다)을 회복해야합니다. 내가 처음 돌아 왔을 때 변형이 깨지지 않았다. 굶주림이 없습니다. 기저귀를 변경할 필요가 없습니다. 좌절합니다. 나는 또한 좌절했을 때 울고있다. 조금만 행동하는 법을 배우지 만 평생 동안 가혹한 일을하는 법을 배우십시오.
원래의 Avishafira는 말했다 : 나는 그녀를 진정시키기 위해 약 10 분 동안 딸을 주었다. 누군가 내가 힘들어 야한다고 말했습니다
이제 나는 2 명의 아이들이 있습니다. 첫 임산부와 함께있을 때 아이들과 함께 배우고 읽었습니다. 나는 항상 잠을 자고 제한된 꿈으로 일하기가 매우 힘들었습니다. 그래서 나는 앞으로 몇 년 동안 나를 끌어 당기는 약간의 공황 상태 였고 그것은 정말로 나의 악몽이었습니다. 내가 지금 읽은 책 중 하나에서 나와 함께 있었던 것 : 수면은 자녀에게 제공 할 수있는 최고의 선물입니다. 나는 또한 꿈 / 아이들이 무엇을 배울 것인지 기억합니다. 그는 내가 가르치고 통제 할 수있는 잠들었다고 생각했고, 나는 편안하다고 느꼈다. 계속하기 전에, 우리가 부모로서 우리가 자녀들에게 더 나은 것이라고 생각하는 일과 그것이 우리에게 효과가 있다고 생각하는 것이 매우 중요합니다. 내 목표는 아들을 자고 밤새 잠을자는 것이 었습니다. 그 소녀는 1 살로 태어났습니다. 나는 전략을 적용했고, 나는 밤새 3 개월 안에 11 시간 내에 잤다. EBF 최대 5 개월까지 직장과 펌프로 돌아 가야했습니다. 아이 2가 도착했습니다. 나는 내 이익에 대한 연습을했다. 동일한 전략을 적용하십시오. 그는 6 주 후에 밤새 잤다. EBF는 직장으로 돌아 왔을 때 최대 5 개월입니다. 아이 1은 악몽이 없으면 여전히 잘자는 거의 4 세입니다. 어린이 2는 9 개월이며 아프지 않으면 11 시간 자고 있습니다. 첫 번째 수면 버전은 어린이에서 발생했습니다. 밤에는 텐트와 가벼운 방, 낮잠의 커튼이있는 어두운 침실. 사운드 머신이 없습니다. 그날 밤 아이들이 집으로 돌아온 이후. 나는 모유 수유를 예방하려고 노력했습니다 (아이들이었을 때는 불가능했지만 조금 더 나이가 많았 기 때문에 가능했습니다). 그러나 당신은 가능한 한 많이 잠을 자고 있습니다 (그들이 나빴을 때 나는 많은 접촉을 얻었습니다). 낮에는 창문이 따라 갔다. 현재의주기는 그를 따라 갔다가 하루 동안 일어 났고 잠을 자고 있습니다. 우리는 다른 우는 방법을 만들었습니다. 우리는 타이머를 2 분 동안 정의하고, 들어 와서 4 분 동안 타이머를 진정시키고, 조용히 계속하십시오. Kid 2는 더 민감하고 더 많은 개입이 필요하고 타이머에서 시간이 줄어 듭니다.